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Cross-country tour

While driving to Ohio and back this weekend I think I saw more state license plates than I’d ever seen before. Below is the list of states that we saw:

  • Alabama
  • Arizona
  • California
  • Colorado
  • Conneticut
  • Florida
  • Georgia
  • Illinois
  • Indiana
  • Kentucky
  • Maryland
  • Massachusetts
  • Michigan
  • Minnesota
  • Mississippi
  • Missouri
  • Nebraska
  • New Jersey
  • New York
  • North Carolina
  • Ohio
  • Oklahoma
  • Pennsylvania
  • Rhode Island
  • South Carolina
  • Tennessee
  • Vermont
  • Virginia
  • Washington
  • West Virginia
  • Wisconsin

That’s 31 states out of the 48 continental ones. That’s pretty high if you ask me. It makes for an entertaining drive trying to find the ones you still need to complete the set.

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Heat wave breaking

Well the heat wave should be over after tonight but from the looks of things it’s going to be an interesting ride. I’m seeing a lot of lightning and hearing a lot of thunder right now but no rain yet. The instability in the two fronts will create quite the thunderstorm. At least here where we live we’re well above the surrounding neighbourhoods so it’s extremely unlikely that we would flood (the advantage of being on the Bluffs). The cats aren’t too scared yet. I looked outside a minute ago and the willow tree is whirling around quite a bit. I’m always afraid in high wind situations that the tree will lose some big part of itself and cause some serious damage. I should take some pictures of our willow tree; it’s quite the impressive sight though as I said having something so impressive also comes with its risks. I should finish this post before the power goes out.

Stay dry.

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Well as I alluded to yesterday we are in the midst of a heat wave this week here in Toronto.  Today or tonight it should break with some welcome relief via thunderstorms.  I have my new umbrella with me in case it starts to rain when I’m heading home.

As of Friday I’m on vacation until the 14th.  It’s a well-deserved vacation and I’m looking forward to spending some time during the day with Marcy.  We’re going to Ohio this weekend to visit my parents and then next weekend we’re planning on going up to Thomas and Christal’s cottage for a couple of days and then the last weekend the plan is to go to Ottawa.  I’ve never been and I think I should probably see our capital at some point.

After the vacation is done it will be time for some internal searching to determine my next path.  Don’t worry, I’ll let you know what I decide and it’ll most likely be in cryptic sentences.

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As yesterday was Mardi Gras we celebrated at our house by eating some tasty sausages and pancakes.  Oh and some scrambled eggs too but that was mainly because we had to eat them up.  On top of the pancakes?  Some maple syrup.  Real maple syrup!  I haven’t had real maple syrup since Sunday morning.  Ok that was because we were at Deerhurst for the weekend and they had a big vat of maple syrup available for the breakfast buffet.  I certainly did not spare any opportunity to make use of this plethora of syrup.  Before this past weekend though I can’t think of the last time I had maple syrup.  Let me tell you this – I really do love it (in case that wasn’t obvious before).

We also watched Walk the Line last night and it’s really quite a good movie.  I’m a pretty big fan of Johnny Cash and I have to say that it’s quite remarkable how similar Joaquin Phoenix sounds like the Man in Black.  Personally I enjoyed this movie more than Ray but both of them seemed to end abruptly.  It’s weird saying that as the movie is over 2 hours long but I was waiting for more after June and John got married.  I suppose I’ll have to read the autobiographies to learn more about that period in their lives.  In any case I enjoyed the film.

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Via BoingBoing I found this article:

Depending on three different flight scenarios, Hocking and Foster found that airline passengers in three different scenarios were 5, 23, or 113 times more likely to catch a cold than if they had not flown at all!…

The most logical reason for infections would seem to be the limited amount of cabin air shared by the passengers. But Hocking, Foster and other scientists have found this is only one factor. The very low humidity in an airplane seems to be much more important.

Very dry air dries up the mucous system that captures and expels bacteria and viruses from our noses. This may be a key reason why airplane passengers catch more colds.

Now I’m by no means a frequent flyer of any aircraft, but I did go on a trip in a plane a couple of weeks ago.  It was a packed plane so perhaps this was the reason behind me getting sick this past week?

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2002 in pictures

I’ve been uploading all of my first sets of digital pictures to my Flickr account. Things like Whirly Ball, my trip to Las Vegas, where I lived and where I worked are all detailed in these photos. These were all taken with my first camera, a Canon PowerShot A40 that we still have today though I’ve moved to using my Canon G5. That camera took me to a lot of new places and helped me experience a lot of new things. It’s hard to believe that 3 years ago I was there. I think I’ve matured and become a better person since then. I’ve also become a better photographer.

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Head cold now

Well as a followup on my cold, it has now moved entirely into my head which let me tell you is a fun experience. Driving home tonight from Belleville (an afternoon visit) was most interesting as I had some occasional sneeze bursts which combined with the rain made for some potentially dangerous driving. I’m trying to find some medecine that works but so far nothing has really given me much relief. The best stuff that I’ve had was the Tylenol Cold & Flu with CoolBurst but we’ve run out of that. If I still have this cold tomorrow night then I’m going to stop by Shoppers Drugmart and pick some up because sleeping and surviving the day will not be very fun otherwise. Tonight I might even take some Nyquil. Hopefully I can get up in the morning because that has made me groggy in the past. My ears keep popping too which is rather annoying. I like being able to hear things. It makes life more enjoyable.

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Picking up on the meme I saw on Jason’s blog, I present my own list of cities for 2005:

  • Toronto, ON*
  • Belleville, ON*
  • Stow, OH*
  • Montreal, PQ
  • Pembroke, ON
  • Grand Falls, NB
  • Brackley Beach, PE
  • Fredericton, NB
  • Woodstock, NB

One or more nights spent in each place. Those cities marked with an * were visited multiple times on non-consecutive days.

Some of those aren’t what I would call “cities” but I did stay there for one or more nights so I’ll count them. The cities on the East Coast are from our trip out there this past summer.

Where did you go last year?

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Back in Canada

I’m back in Toronto. What? You didn’t know I was gone. That saddens me. I had to go to NYC for a couple of days and got back home late last night. It was a pretty hectic trip and hopefully I’ll get a chance to write about it today. I’m pretty tired today and I can’t even leave early as I have two meetings right at the very end of the day. How typical.

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Just call me Mr. Rogers. By Rogers I mean Clements of course. It’s a great day outside today – much better than yesterday’s doom and gloom atmosphere weather-wise. I can’t believe it’s nearly the end of May already. It seems like the past few weeks have gone by in such a blur that I haven’t had much of a chance to breathe or relax.

This past weekend was very nice though. We went to Niagara-on-the-Lake (dashes are mandatory!) to celebrate our anniversary (one year on May 8th). We stayed at a bed & breakfast and toured some wineries in the area and did some shopping. Sunday we went to Niagara Falls and then on Monday we went to Canada’s Wonderland and did some gardening and assembling of our new porch swing. I wish the weekend were longer.

Work is work and hopefully I’ll be finished this large (for this company) project by the end of this week so I can move onto other exciting things. It’ll be a nice change of pace.

Well winter has once again reminded us that it controls March. We had some more snow last night and this morning and it’s definitely below zero. Checking the forecast shows that we have flurries coming our way over the next few days.

I guess we can’t all be in Cuba where I’m sure it feels and is spring-like.

Hooray for JetsGo!

CBC News: Jetsgo shuts down, strands travellers

From the article:

Travellers in the airport said Jetsgo computers and planes were removed in the middle of the night.

I asked Marcy this morning if this was literally a “fly by night” operation. Ha ha ha. Also, where did they remove the planes to? It’s probably just their hangars but the sentence sounds bizarre. It makes it seem like removing the planes is as easy as removing the computers.

It’s a good thing we didn’t end up going to Las Vegas this March Break because I was looking at using JetsGo for our flight there (and back). They have all kinds of frustrated travellers being asked questions by reporters this morning. I would be angry with the company especially considering how they have nobody at the ticket counters but then again would you want to be manning that counter today? I think they should have the executives at the counters. They’re the ones who made the decision and they should be the ones to feel the effects of that decision this morning.

Some people won’t have as good a March Break as they had hoped.

I want to know what American Airlines will say in response to this letter by Cory Doctorow [via]. It’s absurd that they would compile a list of my friends in destination countries.

A lot of people had horrible travel experiences over the last couple of weeks (Kristin’s was particularly bad). However I don’t think anything that I have read could compare with this [via]:

In an ordeal that made some passengers feel like hostages, about 300 people aboard an Amsterdam-to-Seattle flight were delayed for 18 hours on the ground, unable to leave the plane for much of that time, as food and water ran out and the toilets stopped working.

Now I know they added in the “hostages” connection just for effect but waiting in a plane for an extra 18 hours (28 hours travel time in total) is really ridiculous. And what is Northwest (the airline in question) giving these passengers as compensation for their time?

Stanik said passengers would receive a gift pack that included phone cards and vouchers for a free ticket anywhere Northwest flies in the United States and Canada.

The phone cards I wouldn’t be too enthused about but the free ticket could be quite nice. I’d still be hesitant to fly with Northwest again after that kind of experience. I would imagine that a lot of people will be flying direct to Waterloo’s International Airport. That’s what I would do in any case. Speaking of air traffic out of Waterloo, it’s too bad that QuikAir halted their flights to Ottawa and Montreal. I guess they were forecasting a lot more traffic than there was a market for.

Tepid season

They’re saying that it was a “tepid start” to the holiday shopping season in the U.S. Marcy and I were in Ohio this past weekend and we did some shopping on Saturday and I’d have to agree with that assessment. Friday was the usual go-nuts bonanza (Target would give you a wake-up call at 4 A.M. Friday morning if you desired) but on Saturday the mall was nowhere near as busy as I was expecting. That’s ok though, we got most of our shopping done without worrying about lines or traffic jams or the like. Of course I’m not sure that Ohio is a good example to use since their economy has been decimated over the last few years but it has to count for something.

The weekend was fun though driving to Ohio and back is certainly no casual jaunt. Having cruise control is a definite bonus. My parents continue to amaze me with their decorating. They’ve made some significant progress in the basement renovations and put up some nice wood panelling in the hallway. I wonder if I’ve inherited any of that skill.

One picture

I haven’t really spoken about our weekend just past but let me say that it was very fun. Hopefully I’ll have some time to describe the new photos that I’ve uploaded.

This is my favourite picture from the weekend of Kristin (the birthday girl):

Kristin

I was experimenting not using the flash indoors. This of course increases the exposure time to compensate for the lack of light but I like the effect in this picture. I like the lighting on Kristin’s face and the sharpness of the foreground. I don’t like how the waiter in the background is blurry (he was moving) but I can’t do much about that except crop him out. I also could have abided by the rule of thirds a bit more but I wanted Kristin to be the focus of the picture, not anything else.

Oh well, I still really like this picture.

Weekend finally!

The weekend is finally upon us. It’s been an exhausting one for Marcy and I. Even going to bed at our new time of 10 o’clock is not enough it seems to stave off the tired feeling that creeps up during the day. This weekend is going to be another action-packed, fun-filled one – we’re going to Montreal! It’s Kristin’s birthday next week and she’s having a bash tomorrow night with some people. It’ll be exciting to go back to Montreal. We were there in May for our minimoon. Good times were had. I’m definitely looking forward to a little R&R.

Tonight, if we can make it to Leon’s on time, we’re purchasing our leather furniture. Their deal for a 4-piece set plus a 36″ tv expires next week so we might as well get that wrapped up before we bogged down in details about buying the car next week.

The car that thinks

Darren mentions the Smart Car coming to Canada.

This reminded me that Marcy and I saw one of these cars while driving to Whitby on Sunday night. I’ve seen these cars before, most recently when I was in England last year:

Smart Car

They certainly are tiny cars. Anyway the one we saw on the 401 was very peppy – it was travelling quite rapidly. I was quite impressed. I still think it’s too small for our needs but it’s nice to see cars on the road that have great fuel economy (85/65 mpg highway/city).

The commute

So last night I drove to Whitby (as I mentioned) and then back again this morning. I’m tired but it’s worth it to see Marcy for the evening. I had a couple of errands to run before I left town, namely try to find a copy of The Crucible for Marcy to show her Grade 11 class. I haven’t seen the movie or read the book but we have the movie until next Wednesday so perhaps I’ll watch it before then.

Traffic wasn’t too bad seeing as I left a bit later than last Friday. Leaving a little past the main rush home made a huge difference and I barely had any slowdown at all going through Toronto. I left earlier this morning than I have in the past (before 7) and it didn’t make a huge difference in the time it took me to get back here. The only advantage really is that I get to work earlier and seeing as the deadline looms once again I suppose that isn’t such a bad thing. Traffic was slow in “the usual spots” (more on that term at a later date) but generally ok. One thing that really doesn’t agree with me eyes is when a pickup truck has something sticking off the back like a ladder or something. For some reason it seems like it’s going to hit my eye. I can’t really explain it and it doesn’t make much sense but there you go.

When I got to Marcy’s house it seemed like no one was home. I tried ringing the doorbell a couple of times but all of the lights were off inside so I figured that I’d just wait until someone showed up. Marcy was home; she had just fallen asleep. She’s been feeling sick this week and I think she might have a throat infection or something. I had some homemade pizza and chili for dinner (tasted great!) and watched tv for a little bit.

We watched the series premiere of CSI: NY. For a first episode, I’d give it a passing grade but I wasn’t overwhelmed by the episode. The story seemed to fall apart near the end. We did see a new magical technology introduced however – the triangulation modelling application. Now the principles behind this are sound (for once) but I highly doubt that it’s that easy to match up landmarks in a photo using software. Perhaps I’m just ignorant of the software that crime labs have available to them but I suspect the process would be more involved than what they show there. Anyway, the new show is most likely something that I’ll keep watching though I notice that it’s on against Law & Order, another favourite. I’ll have to see how they integrate the new character into that show seeing as Lennie is now gone.

Insect bites

I think I was bitten last night by a spider or some other insect right on my jawbone. It’s quite itchy and has a little bump though nothing too serious. When I was in the car coming back from the animal hospital there was some kind of flying thing in the car and it was at that point that I felt The Itch. It’s not too bad right now though occasionally it does flare up in itchiness.

Pumpkin is doing fine by the way, in case you were worried. I picked her up around 6 last night and when I brought her home she slept for most of the night though she did come onto the bed at one point. She’s eaten some food and was walking around some more when I went home at lunch. She even crawled onto my lap to be petted for a little while. She’ll be back to her old tricks soon enough. I think Elle doesn’t know what to do with herself right now because she’s wanting constant attention when I’m around since Pumpkin isn’t up to playing. It’s cute. I hope they don’t have any troubles when I go to Whitby tonight. I’ll make sure to give them lots of food as usual.

The Last Casino

Yesterday I watched a tv movie called The Last Casino. It’s a Canadian tv movie so it’s highly unlikely you’ve heard of it. It’s about a professor of mathematics who trains a team of 3 university students to win at blackjack by counting cards. I thought it was a fairly well-done film. I liked the pace, the character development and most of the plot. The “investor” didn’t warm me over at all.

Looking at the credits I notice that the person who played George was also in Bulletproof Monk which I discussed in an earlier posting this week. George is a computer engineering student at the university and he plays a painfully stereotypical character. He doesn’t dress all that well, he’s a virgin and when he starts winning money he spends it on an XBox. When told to have some fun he eats alone in his hotel room. I guess I take more offense at this portrayal because I’ve had to deal with this perception of engineers and computer engineers in particular often socially. I remember when I lived in Mississauga back in the summer of 2001 and my roommate was absolutely shocked that I went out socially with other people. She was an engineer too! I suppose it comes with the territory.

Anyway, back to the film. I really liked the scenes in the casino and the training sessions. It reminded me a lot of the time I went to Las Vegas 2 years ago (pictures here). Mat, Sandy, Steve and I sat up quite late discussing different ways to win at blackjack (we played a lot of blackjack that weekend). We had a very good strategy that didn’t include counting and ended up winning quite a lot from one table. Man that was a fun trip. Marcy and I are thinking of going to Las Vegas during March Break next year. That would be a lot of fun too. I’m looking forward to taking trips with her.

I’m sorry to scare you with the picture at left. It’s from the opening ceremonies at Waterloo Region’s latest public school, Sir John A. MacDonald (named after of course our first Prime Minister). My guess is that they were going for the look of a statue of Sir John A. MacDonald but to me it looked more like The Swamp Thing.

This picture was blown up to a larger version on the front page of today’s The Record newspaper and believe me, it’s even scarier when it’s that size. I can’t give you a link due to the newspaper’s stupid online policy (ranted on here) so you’ll have to make do with what I provide at top there.

Another reason why I’m mentioning this new school is because they’ve had so many recent troubles getting the building completed and inspected on time. The school just opened yesterday, almost a week after school started. They say that it was due to a number of different reasons including a bricklayers’ strike. Students had to go to school for half days last week (I’m sure they were disappointed) but now that it’s open they can go full days again. Imagine that – a full day of school! Parents I’m sure were upset but I can’t say for certain because I don’t read the local paper and I don’t watch the local news.

A better example of statue-people is the original, Mr. Statue. He lives in Portland and I saw him on this trip (man, almost 2 years ago now):

Mr Statue

I’ve seen other copycats, like this one in Cannes:

Cannes

or this one in Vienna (with Lonnie beside):

Vienna

So there are definitely better statue-people out there. It’s too bad that Waterloo Region had to pick such a scary-looking one for the opening of their latest school.

Domesticity

Last night I got caught up on a few chores that I had neglected last week.

I did three loads of laundry and surprisingly they dried completely in the dryer. We’ve had countless problems before with the dryers in the laundry room. Often times we’ll go down to pick up the laundry and it’s still very damp. We’ve come up with a formula where the number of loads in the washing machine + 1 (at least) is the number of dryers we’ll need. There are a couple of dryers (and there are only 8 in total) that don’t work very well at all and we’ve learned to avoid these.

I also gave the cats a bath. We had bought this new tearless shampoo and I used it on the cats. They seemed to like the smell but they’re not exactly welcoming of taking a bath as most cats are I suppose. They’re probably better than other cats in that they don’t squirm too much once they’re in the water but they’re not happy with you because then they need to spend the next hour drying themselves. Oh well, they stank and needed a bath desperately.

Then I did all of the hand washing that needed to be done. That involved a lot of wringing and scrubbing and then hanging all of the clothes over the tub to let them dry.

I actually like doing laundry believe it or not. I find it fairly relaxing and you get clean clothes in the end. It’s a win-win situation.

I then did a little bit of ironing. I have some shirts that are a bit wrinkled and if I want to bring them with me to Belleville this weekend (it’s Marcy’s mom’s birthday), it might be a good idea to have a nicely-pressed shirt. Plus I think Marcy likes how I look in fancy button-down shirts and I want to impress her (ha – good pun!).

Tonight I’m going to maybe pick up the containers from Cressa and John and start packing books and sorting through my clothes and documents (I’ve been meaning to do this latter item since I moved in). I’ll start taking some of the things we’ve put on the walls down and pack them away. Tomorrow hopefully I can secure a storage locker by the apartment and put some of the boxes in there to clear up some room. I also need to go through our own storage locker in the building and determine what we want to take with us and what gets tossed. It’s time to be discriminatory with this stuff I’ve been carting around with me for 6 years.

Uneasy feeling

I’ve felt very uneasy all week. It’s probably mostly due to it being Marcy’s first week of teaching. Yesterday I was anxious to hear that it went well and I’m glad that it did. It’s kind of strange being so far apart throughout the week but it’s different from when Marcy was in teaching college last year. Our relationship is stronger and now we’re married.

Also some stuff at work has been kind of strange – postponing of scheduled events and such. I can guess what’s happening but it’s only a guess.

Tomorrow I’m taking the afternoon off and I’m travelling to Toronto and then to Ajax to be with Marcy tomorrow night. It’s a lot of driving this week but it’s all worth it in the end.

We have the apartment in Toronto so we’re going to go on Saturday to sign the lease (and give more money). We’re looking to rent a storage unit here for the rest of the month so we can start seriously packing and won’t have to worry about boxes cluttering our already-too-small space. It shouldn’t be more than $50. My list of tasks to complete before October 2nd is growing and the next three weeks is going to be insanely busy as we try to get all of the loose ends dealt with.

I haven’t felt like eating too much this week. I probably have too much on my mind.

September

“In September” by Hayden is one of my favourite songs and today is September first. That means that the year of 2004 is two-thirds done already. Man that’s pretty crazy to think about. But you know what? I’ve accomplished a lot already this year though even still the year seems like a gigantic blur when I look back on it. I’m sure the final 4 months of the year will be just as action-packed for Marcy and I what with moving, the starting of new jobs, holidays, etc. September is going to be one busy month; I know that for certain. Today I have to put my 60 days notice on the apartment in writing and hand it to the building manager. Tonight Marcy and I are driving to Toronto to give in the rest of the paperwork (it turns out they’re only open until 7 o’clock – boo). On top of that I have to continue to push towards our release date here at work of October 1st. Busy busy bees we will be.

I should probably update on a few things.

First of all, Marcy has a job! She’ll be teaching in the Ajax area beginning next week. We’re both very excited. Marcy describes the whole whirlwind of events that happened Thursday and Friday here.

We were planning on going to Ohio last weekend to be with my dad on his birthday but instead we spent it here and Toronto looking for a place to live. We were intending on vacating our apartment November 1st anyway and this turn of events solidified our intentions and also gave us a direction to move to (always important). Friday Marcy scoured the renting resources around Toronto and came up with a sizable list of places to investigate. We called a few of them Saturday morning and booked appointments. The first place we went to see was depressing to say the least. It wasn’t very clean and the view from the balcony was particularly bad – we could see an abandoned mall. The balcony had pigeon netting on it and an exposed I-beam on the side. Not exactly encouraging. On top of that, it was expensive considering the space we would have.

The second place was far more encouraging (this was the one we eventually took). The rental agent was very nice and showed us two units. The building had a “rent 1 bedroom, get the 2nd free” deal which may seem odd at first glance. Basically they’re offering $110 off the rental cost. There are two buildings, each 28 stories tall but there are only 8 units per floor so it’s not a sardine can. The first unit was nice – 2 bedrooms, living room, kitchen, bathroom, closet space but the second unit was what really struck us. It’s huge! Approximately 1100 square feet, it has a living area, separate dining area, kitchen, walk-in closet, 2 bedrooms, bathroom and a 20′ balcony across the front. It’s an absolutely enormous place particularly when you compare it with our current living area which is at maximum 450 square feet. The building includes utilities and they’re giving us a free parking spot and so in total we’ll only be spending a couple of hundred dollars more than here in Kitchener. If you want, you can see pictures of the new place here though it’s a lot of open, white space right now.

The third appointment we ended up skipping because it was one of the sketchiest places I’ve ever seen. Ed would call it “dodgy”. There was garbage on the balconies, some rather unsavoury characters hanging out in the parking lot and the building itself was falling apart. Compared to the previous place it seemed like a dump so we decided to drive on to our last appointment.

This was on Avenue Road right across from the private girl’s school. There were about 20 2-story buildings that were built in the 1950s or ’60s. They were very nice – real hardwood, lots of space and a really quaint kitchen. The downsides were that it would be quite a bit more expensive. We’ll maybe move to something like this next year after we’re a bit more established.

After that we visited Hilary’s place for a little while and after haggling with her neighbour after she boxed our car in (a real pleasant character) we headed home. Sunday however we headed back to Toronto with our completed application and a cheque as deposit on the larger unit. We’re going back tonight with the rest of the paperwork and with any luck we’ll have our apartment by Friday. I’m pretty excited – we move in October 1st which does mean that I’ll be commuting back to Kitchener everyday but it’s not that far, maybe an hour with traffic and/or weather right now. It’s also not very far to Marcy’s school – 35 minutes is what we timed on Sunday and since we’ll both be going against traffic both in the morning and afternoon it should not a bit less of a headache to get around. We spent Sunday afternoon visiting with the people that Marcy will be staying with during the month of September. They’re very nice and they have a newborn baby boy which Marcy will probably fawn over all month.

So it seems like everything is falling into place. Marcy and I went back-to-school shopping yesterday and let me tell you – it’s not that much different shopping with a teacher as it is with a student. We have new pens, stickers, pencils, crayons, ruler, stapler, pencil sharpener and a poster of the Canadian Prime Ministers. Ok, so that last one might be unique to teachers and maybe Marcy was more excited than the average student would be to go back to school but it still felt similar.

The weekend is going to be a busy one – I’m taking Friday off (assuming I get the approval) to go and pick up Marcy’s car in Belleville. We’ll drop the car off in Whitby Friday and then come back to Kitchener. My parents are coming up Sunday so we’ll go out for dinner with them and then Monday morning we’re moving Ian into residence at the University (crossing fingers this year goes well) and then in the afternoon Marcy and I will go to Whitby and I’ll drive back Tuesday morning.

I’m so happy for Marcy. She’s going to be an amazing teacher.

Weekend!

Today seems like Friday. I know it’s not (checks the calendar). It’s Wednesday. However my work week ends today as I’m taking two days off work to get ready for our big wedding reception on Saturday. I’ll admit that it’s been stressful getting to this point but after Saturday we should be able to relax a little.

Over the next two days though, boy, we’ll be busy. Tonight we’re going to Belleville. Tomorrow morning I get up early and drive to Mississauga pick up the flowers we’ve ordered and on the way back I have to pick up Marcy’s wedding dress in Peterborough. Marcy meanwhile will be doing the bulk of the grocery shopping tomorrow and working on the desserts. Friday is going to be an insane day where we need to decorate the gym and finish off the cooking for Saturday. I have a feeling it’ll be a late night. Saturday morning we need to put the finishing touches in place and get ready ourselves by 1 o’clock (earlier in fact). At some point I also need to practice the two pieces that I’ll be playing on Saturday (Adagio Cantabile from Beethoven’s “Pathetique” and “Wedding Day in Troldhagen” by Edvard Grieg).

Hopefully everything goes well (I’m sure it will). It’ll be nice to catch up with some of the people coming. I haven’t seen them in too long.

I took a break from posting for a few days. I hope that everyone had a great Canada Day and/or Independence Day.

My weekend was very relaxing and that was exactly what I needed. It felt like each day was its own weekend, that was how long everything seemed.

Friday Marcy and I went to Burford to visit with my Aunt Nellie and also to visit my grandmother and grandfather’s grave. Ten years ago last week she passed away. Seven years since my grandfather passed away. My aunt (actually my Great Aunt) showed me a book she had made for my grandfather (she made one for each of her siblings). It was pretty emotional seeing all of those early photos of them and my mom and her siblings, the photos of my family, the photos of my uncle’s family and finally at the end, the death notices of my grandparents and my other great aunts. It’s easy to see now that my grandmother’s passing was the catalyst (but definitely not the cause) of our falling-out with the rest of my family, on both sides.

Friday night we went to see Spider-Man 2 at Galaxy with John, Mark, Carolyn and Lamont. John was in from Vancouver to go to a wedding on Saturday and it was very nice to see him. The movie I did not like that much. It dragged in too many parts. I know I’ll probably be labelled as a blasphemer by some for saying this but it wasn’t that great a movie. After dinner we went to Molly Bloom’s in Waterloo for some food and drink and that was a lot of fun. Marcy has a way to capture a crowd that I’m very envious of but I know that I’ll never be able to do that. It’s just not in my nature.

Sidenote: I encourage you to go and see John’s film, Ewok in an Elevator playing over at Atom Films. Unfortunately it’s going to look like he copied the idea in the new Spider-Man movie but I assure you, he thought of the idea first.

Saturday Marcy and I slept in and then went berry picking up in St. Jacob’s. It was extremely hot and Marcy got a little dehydrated so we went back to the apartment to cool off. We watched Clueless at night. I like that movie, it’s pretty funny.

Yesterday we went to Chapters during the afternoon for a bit. I started reading a comic book biography of Louis Riel (man I hate Chapters‘ URLs). It was pretty interesting and I’ll have to go back and finish it (I was about halfway done). After that we went over to visit Marcy’s old roommate, Stacey. We showed her the wedding photos and ended up staying there for almost 5 hours. It was good though, we haven’t seen Stacey in a long time.

We got some New Orleans Pizza for dinner (which subsequently gave me heartburn) and watched most of Forrest Gump. Since it was July 4th, I suppose people thought it would be appropriate to show that movie since it’s a “feel-good” film and has a lot of “American values”.

I also finally finished a book that I started a while ago – Eric Schlosser’s Reefer Madness: Sex, Drugs, and Cheap Labor in the American Black Market. I love Eric’s writing (he also wrote Fast Food Nation). It was fascinating to read about the rise of the pornography industry in the United States and the ridiculousness of the marijuana punishments meted out by the US justice system. It’s remarkable how different the situation is here in Canada versus the United States and Eric remarks on this difference. I was a bit disappointed by the paltry amount of material about the illegal migrant worker situation but maybe Eric thought that subject has had more coverage than the other two issues discussed in the book. I look forward to Eric’s next book, reportedly on the prison system in the United States. I’d have to say that he’s one of my current favourite non-fiction writers.

So that, in essence, was my weekend. Hardly action-packed but considering how many of the weekends this year (extending even to last year) that we’ve had to run around the province, it was more than pleasant to stay in one place. This weekend is the bachelor party and the next weekend is our reception. After that we have little-to-no-plans which I’m definitely looking forward to.

Anil brings up some good points.

When Marcy and I got to Ohio on Friday, my parents had the Reagan funeral service on television (mainly because it was the only thing on). I really hadn’t had a chance to get aware of the sheer volume of coverage that the American news outlets had about Reagan’s death.

They were gearing up for the sunset burial service at the Reagan Library in California. First of all it took them a long time to get to the actual site, causing the band to play the same few songs over and over again. The speeches from his children were very touching. Where they went overboard though was with the flag-folding moment, when Nancy burst into tears on top of the coffin and her children were comforting her. All I could hear was the click of dozens of shutters. It was disgraceful.

Funeral services should not be aired live on television. I don’t care how mournful “the nation” is that this “great President” has died. The family needed some peace to grieve in private after the official funeral in Washington. There should have been no cameras in California and no headlines and/or pictures the next day about who collapsed in tears where and when. These are things that the public does not need to know. Having been to a couple of personal funerals myself, I know how hard they can be and if I had to “keep up appearances” for an entire week I know that I wouldn’t be able to do it. I’m not that strong.

Last week Marcy and I put together the wedding reception invitations. It was a lot of work.

Thursday night we printed the RSVP text onto sheets of vellum. We could fit 9 cards onto one sheet so Marcy drew lines and cut them out. Then she attached the vellum to the RSVP card stock we bought in February using tiny barettes (that really cut up the finger skin).

Meanwhile I went about printing off 95 double-sided invitations. The paper we used is extremely nice but it’s not well-suited for use in an inkjet printer. The printer would often have a hard time feeding in the sheet. I basically had to stand by the printer and feed the sheets individually and then set them on top of the desk to make sure they dried before piling them up to the side. Once we finished the one side (originally we only had the one side), Marcy and I decided that it looked too plain and so we put a simple quotation on the front of the invitation. That meant feeding through the 95 sheets again but this time was better since the printer could pick up the straight edge (as opposed to the jagged edge of the first side).

Once that was finished (the second side took much less time), I helped Marcy attaching the vellum sheets. Then we folded the invitations.

After that came the stamping and stuffing. We had bought this stamp with our address on it since it would be easier to stamp than to write it out 200+ times. So we stamped the RSVP envelopes and the outer invitation envelopes. We stuffed the invitation envelopes with one invitation and an RSVP envelope containing the RSVP.

Friday morning Marcy addressed all of the envelopes (that’s a lot of work) and before we left for Ohio we went to the post office, paid $85 in postage and started sealing and stamping the envelopes. We got through about 35 before realizing that we weren’t stamping the RSVP envelopes (which is the polite thing to do). A look of horror probably dawned on both of our faces but there wasn’t anything that we could do at that point. We continued with the rest of the invitations, making sure to stamp the RSVP envelopes on them, sealed them and put a nice tea cup sticker on the outside of the envelope. Then we gave them all to the lady behind the counter.

We brought three of the invitations back to Ohio with us since they needed to be mailed within the US (Jon’s, Ed and Ashley’s and the Rutter’s). I thought we would need a special stamp for the RSVP envelopes for these three but my parents just use 2 first-class stamps and that does the trick.

I handed out the invitations to people at work today. Hopefully some of them can make it. We’re expecting around 150 people to be there July 17th. It’s going to be a lot of work. Hopefully people have a good time.

Last night Marcy and I drove back from Ohio. It takes about 5.5 hours to drive from here to there but last night it ended up taking us almost 8 hours.

One of those hours was spent eating dinner at Cracker Barrel (a potential M-4 restaurant) in Erie, PA.

The rest of the delay was due to the intense string of thunderstorms that swept across Ontario last night. It was quite scary.

As we were driving up Highway 6 it started to rain and there was a lot of lightning. I would imagine that there was thunder as well but we couldn’t hear that in the car.

Once we got onto the 401 the rain really intensified. I slowed down, stayed in the middle lane where possible and put on my hazard lights so that people behind me could see that I was driving slowly. At times the sky was as bright as day. The lightning was almost continuous and we were both pretty scared that either we or the trucks around us would hydroplane and cause an accident.

Fortunately we didn’t have too far to go until we got to Highway 8 but even the short distance we travelled was downright frightening. Probalby the scariest part was when we saw green lightning light up the sky. I know that a green sky is a precursor to possible tornados and I was afraid that green lightning might mean the same thing. I think that assumption is false now that I’ve done a little research but at the time it was creepy. The sky isn’t supposed to be green.

We were worried about the kittens and how they were handling the bright lights and (undoubtedly) loud sounds. We had to leave them at the apartment this weekend. We missed them. They were definitely happy to see us when we got into the apartment.

There was a very bad, very recent accident while we were driving up Highway 8. An SUV had rammed into a Honda Prelude and it looked really ugly. Fortunately the police were almost immediately on the scene and I hope that the injured received care in time.

Sometimes people forget that the area from London to Waterloo is one of the worst for summer and winter storms. I’ve driven through some intense rainstorms and even worse snowstorms over the years. Fortunately I don’t have to drive in that direction (London-ways) too often since my parents don’t live in Michigan anymore and Marcy doesn’t live in London anymore. The only thing down that way is Rick and Bev’s house.

I’m glad we’re back home safe and sound. I’m sure there were others who weren’t so lucky.

Off to Ohio!

Marcy and I are leaving for Ohio this afternoon. I haven’t been back “home” since mid-February mainly because we’ve been so busy and Ohio is kind of far away (it takes about 5 hours to get there). I’m excited to see my parents and to see all of the work they’ve done in the backyard. I’m sure it looks fabulous.

We’re going to have to leave the kittens here in Kitchener this time – the first time we haven’t been able to travel with them. Cleo, our cat in Ohio would most likely rip any other cat to shreds so it’s a good idea to leave them at home. Mark has said that he’d come and feed them over the weekend so that’s nice of him.

I’m getting hungry and since I’m leaving work in 20 minutes I should probably eat my lunch. I’ll be back on Sunday night.

Marcy and I are travelling to Belleville tonight. I really don’t know any triplets in that fine city but I’m certain that they do exist.

It’s going to be a fun weekend though – tonight we may or may not go see Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (hooray!), tomorrow is Andrew’s birthday and then tomorrow night we’re going to see Sally’s play. All in all it should be great fun and if the weather holds up (*crosses fingers*) I may even be able to go out and take some pictures. In the year that I’ve been going to Belleville with Marcy I’ve taken a scant few pictures. Each time we drive in we go by this wonderful train yard and it’s just begging to be photographed.

Hopefully the cats cooperate during the drive. Often times they don’t and it’s a 3 hour “meow”-fest from here to there.

We’re stopping in Oshawa to have dinner with Jake. We’ll give him his thank-you present for being our videographer at the wedding. Next week I want to start importing the video onto the computer so that I can have everything ready to go for the 17th.